This passage reminds of me of one line of a song I used to sing. It is in Gujarati, my mother tongue. Namage' dodatu ave'. Tranlation: It comes fast if you don't ask. It stands for spiritual blessings- Divine Gifts. Spiritual gifts do not come to us when we have selfish desires, self-interest and self-serving mindset. " In giving we receive" as St Francis of Assisi says. Or as The Rishi of Ishavasya Upanishada says in Sanskrit, " Ten tyaktena bhunjitaha". Renounce and rejoice. Sadly, the world we live in values more the merrier, and there is no end to possessing and grabbing more and more. We were born in a relatively poor family but we didn't feel poverty in our heart. My mother was very hospitable and generous. My friends who were brought up in rich families would come to see me at lunch time. My mother offered them very simple food to eat. They enjoyed eating simple food with great joy. They loved to cherish the simple food as it was made with the sweetness of her heart. I still feel the sweet presence of my mother in my heart. I was blessed to have such a loving mother in my life. I am very grateful to her for planting the seeds of spirituality in my heart. The more I fertilize them with selfless service and unconditional love, the more my life blossoms with fragrance of deep joy and contentment.
Namaste
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Maria
4/29/2023 09:40:26 am
Living an ordinary life while being aware of the extraordinary is a constant practice for me. It’s so easy to forget that we only have a limited amount of time on this Earth. When I remember that I can tap into my extraordinary bliss and act from there and feel contentment. It’s hardest when I am struggling with anxiety but taking deep breaths grounds me back to that awareness. “That everything will be ok.” By dropping the expectations and being present with my activity and with others is my only goal. Thank you for sharing your story with your mom. My mom also instilled strong spiritual values and I value them tremendously. We all have faults and I will remember more her virtues than her errors. Just like I hope my kids do the same with me. Acceptance, allowing, and love are values I want to strength in my life. Just like my mother showed me when she was present.
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Maria Castro
4/29/2023 10:00:18 am
Dearr Maia:
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Elaine noonan
4/29/2023 09:45:13 am
I agree with your comments Dr Dave’. Every moment we breathe is an extraordinary moment if we give her full attention to everything going on in order to make that breath happen, including the oxygen in our world. As I am heating up soup for lunch, I am enjoying extraordinary soup :-) if you are smiling now I am smiling too! Thank you for your loving and wise comments. Namaste.
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Elaine noonan
4/29/2023 10:09:18 am
Welcome for walking together on the path less traveled.
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Debbie Podwika
4/29/2023 02:24:18 pm
I agree with this original post & your comments Dr. Dave in general. I have told people quite often, I do not care who gets credit as long as it gets done & makes improvements. I wonder myself if it was a huge thing (if I ever did come up with a huge thing) if I would still feel the same way. Maybe credit for some new invention or award?? Hmmm. I do not believe in "stealing ideas" and history does need to give credit accurately. Sooo many women, people of color etc. have not been given their credit in the past so that is important to me. Also no plagiarizing etc.
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