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Lessons On My 70th Birthday

9/3/2022

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This is a great Birthday Kevin! There are many wonderful lessons cited by Kevin and that makes it difficult for me to choose a couple of lessons. The one that applies to me is " Don't wait for the storms to pass; dance in the rain." This statement took me back to my little home town in Gujarat where I was born. On a hot summer day we were eagerly waiting for the dark clouds to show up and rain for hours. It was the right day and time for us to dance. And we keep on dancing until we got tired. Now I am old and I relate to this statement differently. I see the value of living fully in the present moment fully and joyfully. The present is the real time. Not to dwell on the past and be anxious about tomorrow. Now is the real time.

The second lesson "Your growth as a conscious being is measured by the number of uncomfortable conversations you are willing to have." I find it rather difficult to relate to conversation with people who have rigid and fixed different positions in politics and religion and are unwilling to keep their minds and hearts open. I try to remain open with them but it is hard to walk on one way street. I like to be astonished and that's a great way of aging wisely and gracefully. And such "wow" moments happen frequently for me. I see two little children running around in a grocery store near their mother. I look at them and smile. They return their smile to a stranger! Seeing a variety of colorful flowers in my backyard and birds singing song fills my mind with wonder and heart with delight. I have been practicing and teaching Mindfulness Meditation in my Zoom classes. Living mindfully offers many opportunities to us to view and relate to life as dancing in the falling rain. When we are not living in the present moment we miss seeing the rain falling, flowers blooming, children smiling and seasons of life changing. May we be aware of the power of presence, the only dance there is!
Namaste!
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Therese M. Griffin link
9/3/2022 04:18:37 pm

I do have a playful God! At age 70, I thought I was going to lose my position as hospital Chaplain. Originally our mandatory training was in a group with speaker and group discussion. Then, a change turn to have it completed on the computer. I failed the same exam four times that I could have taught. Immediately after the 4th exam, I walked into the restroom where a hospital grown was on the floor with blood on the floor by two sinks. I immediately did everything by procedure and roping it off. I reported it to the Labor Unit that a woman probably departed. One nurse, I just saw my patient 5 minutes ago it's not mine. I said, where has she been in the last three minutes. That was the patient who walked out of the hospital.

My supervisor a former teacher understood that I miss words when I read. I search for a specialist Vision Tracking. Dr. Tanya Polec was a miracle worker. Vision Tracking if you think of a V a simple sentence "I'm with to the store." As a 5th grader I would have read out loud "I am store!" My friends would giggle and the teacher would say, "I wish you wouldn't be a class clown." I liked I made my friends laughed but didn't understand the teacher. Vision Tracking I am V store. The words in the middle of the V is like word blindness.

Dr. Tanya told me after Vision treatment I could write a book. What? She wrote a Forward on my first memoir, "Are You Hearing Me? - Tell Me Before I Die." Dr. Dave' would let me record my papers on a recorder. Over my younger years I found and figured out my own Special Accommodations before it was a coin phrase.

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Debbie Podwika
9/5/2022 03:29:06 pm

I like the majority of his wisdoms but a few I have some concerns with...

I would not say no one is as impressed with your possessions as you are because there are many who are, let's say you collect old vintage cars, then other vintage car people would be and that is why they will pay top dollar to buy them. Perhaps not everyone or as many would be a better way to phrase it. I'm not sure why that is an important wisdom though? I mean you can always find someone to buy your possessions online so???

I think it is very important what is said before "but." "I love you but, you can't keep forgetting to pick up the kids from daycare or can't be so late." "I see your point, but I also see his point." Etc.

The Criticize in private doesn't work for social issues...would he tell MLK Jr not to criticize the administration then for social injustices???

The copying one...ah I hope what the other is doing is good? He doesn't even say that? And copying others is not always good! Be your own creative self. That is why God made you. If he wanted you to be just like the other he would have made you a Twin! HA! And even Identicals have some differences! HA!

I also disagree with the predictability when you think for yourself. Keep an open mind and listen, you may change as you get older but it depends...you can be predictable and have thought things out over years. So I love animals and of course will help them and would be against abuse of them. One could predict then I would be the same for humans and the planet...that is not bad.

I like the ones you mentioned. I totally agree on the long game idea though it is hard. I like the being polite idea though one should be assertive, not aggressive, if something is just not right and you need to speak up for things to change.

The one on what you do on your bad days...YEP I totally agree and I think that is the one I'm working on the most now. Today...I apparently caught my niece's cold so I'm being mindful that I do need rest and not to push too hard but what can I still accomplish today even if I have to adjust or postpone a few things until I have more energy.

I LOVE the speak confidently as if you are right and listen carefully as if you are wrong!!!!

Ok, that is all the energy I have. HA!

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