Based on the article by Toko-Pa-Turner, below is my reflection:
I love the wise Statement of Rumi: "Sell your cleverness and buy bewilderment". We are on a journey and we need to keep our mind and heart open to see the bewilderment that unfolds spontaneously without preconceived notions. A mind free from the bondage of preconceived notions shines and helps us see the light. When I face a fog of confusion as I move on the path of life, I face it with clarity, calmness and courage. When I bear witness to what is happening in my life, I do not get attached to and bound by my desires and wishes, by ups and downs in my life. It is very difficult for me to go through pain of several losses of people in my long life. Bearing witness to such losses in my life has been very helpful to me. Witnessing and accepting what is happening in my life has helped me to remain grounded and centered. Practicing mindfulness with loving kindness, patience and perseverance has been very helpful to me after a long exile. Namaste!
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I love the way Mark Vandeneijnde shows the integration of Head and Heart. I will quote a couple of statements made by the author:
One to listen and one to talk. One to think and one to feel. One to sense and one to see. One to Do and one to feel. This saying reminds me of the Zen Koan: What is the sound of one hand clapping? My response to this Zen question is that we need both hands to make the meaningful sound. They are together. By togetherness of sound and silence, a melody of oneness is created. The greeting Namaste comes to my mind as I am reflecting on this writing. By joining my two hands you and I are becoming one, a Divine Union or Unitive Cosmic Consciousness. Like any new significant learning, realizing the Divine Oneness requires time, patience, and perseverance. With non-judgemental awareness I have been able to integrate both head and heart. Practicing Mindfulness Meditation has been very helpful to me to integrate both aspects of the divide. By holding my hands and touching my heart, I am saying Namaste to all! Who am I is a profound question explored by spiritual seekers and mystics. Am I my body, Am I my mind, or I am beyond my body and mind? We usually identify ourselves with body and mind. My true self, my authentic self, my essence is beyond body and mind. Sadly, as we grow up, our personality is shaped by what the people close to us define our real and authentic selves by our looks, by our worldly possesions, our professions, prestige and power. Sadly we lose our authentic self, our true identity.
The story of the eagle and the chicken narrated by Jamie Glenn is quite revealing: How the mighty and free eagle turns into a chicken, the eagle looking like a chicken and quacking like a chicken and becoming a chicken. Sadly a majority of people in different societies and cultures tend to define their members by the external appearances, ranks, money and power. No wonder, why such societies and cultures create materialistic, power and prestige hungry leaders. I was blessed to have parents in my life who lived authentically and provided good modeling. They played a significant role in shaping my authentic personality. Forming eagle-like authentic self is not easy for us as we have to depend on and rely upon significant people in our childhood. It requires courage and determination to sing my song and dance my dance, to be an eagle and not a chicken. Namaste! There are two ways we use language. One way is for survival and the other way is for evolving our consciousness. The author of this article, Vyaas Huston, uses two different phrases to differentiate the two modes of communication: survival language and sacred language. According to my understanding, we need survival language to meet basic mundane needs such as food, water, clothing , shelter, and mate. We also need to evolve on a higher level of living, to evolve on a higher level of consciousness, from me to we, from mundane to sacred. The challenge is how to evolve from survival to sacred. According to my experience we need the helping hands of caretakers, to not fall down and hurt ourselves and others, and to slowly and gradually move up on our own. Parents can provide good modeling to their children. I was blessed to have such elders in my life. They would provide help when needed and let me walk on my path freely. My parents used to tell me in Gujarati, my mother tongue, 'Vicharine yar uchhar vani'. Think before speak. That was very helpful advice which I still follow. In other words, this means to cultivate mindfulness of your inner world of thoughts and feelings before hurting yourself and others. Empathy and compassion for myself and others is very helpful to allow me to talk and relate to others in a sacred language. Life is a journey and I have been walking on this sacred path with compassion and kindness, with patience and perseverance.
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