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My Freedom Is In Your Hands

4/16/2022

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Here is my reflection after reading the excerpt from Jacques Verduin's article:
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We all are interbeings. The face of intrabeing is also the face of interbeing. What I do has an impact on the other and what the other has also an impact on me. We all are intertwined. If I am aware of my wrong doing and do not defend it and ask for forgiveness I get redeemed of my wrong doing. Every moment of offense carries within it the grace of redemption.

We all are facing the wave of COVID19 virus. If I do not take precautions such as taking vaccines and a booster it may have an impact on others who come in contact with me. We do not live on an isolated island. We all are connected with others. As I am 96 years old I am more susceptible to getting the virus. By taking vaccinations and a booster shot I am protecting myself and also protecting others coming in contact with me.

Responsibility is the other side of the face of freedom. In that way my freedom is in your hand of responsibility and your freedom is in my hand of responsibility. Sadly for some people freedom is a one way street. Free but not responsible. Knowing that we all are interconnected and remaining aware and implementing that knowledge in every walk of my life helps me act wisely. I know my freedom is in your hands and your freedom is in my hands. My fate is in your hands and your fate is my hands. We are interconnected. We are not an isolated island. May we all have this awakened state of mind.

Namaste!
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There Is Only One Taste

4/9/2022

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Here is my reflection after reading an excerpt from Ken Wilber's book - One Taste.
When I look out from the eyes, the seer is looking out, the witness consciousness is looking out untouched by what is being seen. What is being seen changes but not the seer or the witness. I like what Ken Wilber says, " There is only One State, within which different states arise. There is only One Taste, through which various different tastes flow." Though we see different selves, there is only One Self. When we realize this Truth, "the heartbeat of compassion will resound. A constant cloud of caring will rain on every parade." as Ken Wiber says.

When I am in deep meditative state the self-created walls of divisiveness and fragmentation melt away and I experience unitive state of consciousness, only One Taste. By practicing Meditation, this state of unitive consciousness stays longer and longer and that's a blessing. The heartbeat of compassion and caring continues resounding. Clouds clear up and in the vast pure Emptiness I experience fullness.
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Namaste!
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Say Wow

4/9/2022

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Chelan Harkin is a mystic poet and his poem is posted in awakin.org. Here is my reflection to his poem:

Nature offers many wonderful gifts in our hands everyday and we say "Wow!" I get up early in the morning watching the sun rising and I say "Wow!" I hear the birds chirping and feeding their little babies and the words come out from my mouth, "Wow!" When I see the older brother taking care of the little younger brother my heart is filled with joy and I hear myself saying "Wow!"

There is an old saying in Sanskrit like" ksane kasne yaha upeti navatam tadeva rupam ramaniyayata." Beauty brings joy every moment. When I keep my mind and heart open to perceive and experience it fully each moment, my heart is filled with wonderment. I experience such Aha moments when I fully live in the present moment. When I was a child I had more "Wow!" moments. As I got older I became more thought minded and rational than heart minded and emotional which to some extent dried the flow of my heartfeltness. As I am growing older I have been able to create a dynamic balance between head and heart. This is one of the ways I have reconciled wonder with rationality.

​Namaste! 
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Seeking To Understand

2/12/2022

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Here is my reflection to the wonderful article by Timber Hawkeye: 

How to build, sustain, and strengthen the bridge of relationships between two people with the same goal but different or opposite approaches? This is a big challenge for sustaining and flourishing interpersonal relationships. It is important to understand not only what but more importantly WHY behind the actions. Empathic understanding of each other is the building block of thriving and peaceful relationships. I love Saint Francis of Assisi's words of wisdom when he shows the importance of seeking to understand rather than to be understood.

I love to spend time everyday with my grandson exploring spiritual ways of living life. There are certain ideas of living a spiritual life that are basically different from each other. We respectfully differ and listen to each other empathically and compassionately. This way of relating to each other with an open mind blossoms our relationships. Differences do not create distances between both of us.

I deeply value Viktor Frankl's words of wisdom: "Between a stimulus and a response, there is space and in that space there is freedom and power." When I have a different perspective or stance on an issue from the other person, I pause, breathe and create a space in me and empathically and kindly understand the other person's perspective-the WHY- and respond wisely. I also follow the same approach when it happens to me. Let me conclude with Rumi's words of wisdom: "Out beyond ideas of right and wrong, there is a field. I will meet you there."

Namaste! 
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You've Been Nirvanized Since The Nonbeginning

2/5/2022

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Thich Nhat Hanh was a Vietnamese Buddhist monk, a peace activist and author. He passed away on Jan 22, 2022. Below is my reflection to the excerpt from his book Beyond Birth and Death.

I live on many dimensions of life which are time and space bound. Pains and pleasures come and go. Mind is filled with thoughts and worries. Nirvana means extinction of all notions and concepts such as birth and death, being, nonbeing, coming and going. Nirvana is the ultimate dimension of life, a state of goodness, peace, and joy. When I am fully present with the flow of the present moment I feel "nirvanized". It feels like living in the clear sky unbound by space and time.

When I am fully present to the present moment with deep awareness I am in the ultimate dimension of reality. I feel the fullness of breath coming and going. I feel centered. When my mind wanders I know I have lost my connection with the ever flowing present.

Remaining aware of my in breath and out breath helps me live each moment deeply. I am flowing with isness. Conscious and nonjudgmental breathing helps me live each moment deeply. If pain arises, I do not fight or cover up or run away from pain. I embrace pain tenderly-no fighting, no escape. I recognize it and and embrace pain tenderly. Transformation takes place. From the mud of pain grows the lotus flower.

Namaste! 
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There Is Only One Taste

2/5/2022

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When I look out from the eyes, the seer is looking out, the witness consciousness is looking out untouched by what is being seen. What is being seen changes but not the seer or the witness. I like what Ken Wilber says, " There is only One State, within which different states arise. There is only One Taste, through which various different tastes flow." Though we see different selves, there is only One Self. When we realize this Truth, "the heartbeat of compassion will resound. A constant cloud of caring will rain on every parade." as Ken Wiber says.

When I am in deep meditative state the self-created walls of divisiveness and fragmentation melt away and I experience unitive state of consciousness, only One Taste. By practicing Meditation, this state of unitive consciousness stays longer and longer and that's a blessing. The heartbeat of compassion and caring continues resounding. Clouds clear up and in the vast pure Emptiness I experience fullness.
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The Simplest Meditation

1/29/2022

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Below is my reflection to the article written by Melvin McLeod:
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According to my understanding, arriving at enlightenment means finding my true nature of mind, the basic ground of reality in progress. True nature of mind is emptiness-empty of craving and clinging, free from judging mind, free from selfishness and self-will, free of all my projections. Such a pure mind is replete with wisdom, joy, compassion, peace and enlightenment.

I remember a story in which a Zen master was asked a question "What is Enlightenment?" To which the Zen master responded: "I drink water when I am thirsty. I eat food when I am hungry. I sleep when I am tired." When our attachment to material and spiritual strivings and struggles ceases, our mind gets deep joy and peace. We are free. We are Enlightened.

In my spiritual journey I have been learning that the true inner freedom arises not by struggling to achieve freedom, joy, peace, compassion and enlightenment but by sitting down letting go of my cravings and attachments. I put in action three words in my daily journey of spiritual life: Mindfulness, Awakening and Meditation. Applying these these three spiritual values in my everyday transactions helps me reconcile not striving with other dictums of continuous improvement.

Namaste!
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Mercy

1/22/2022

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According to my understanding, mercy is one the most outstanding spiritual virtues. Mercy is different from forgiveness. When somebody does something wrong to me I forgive that person. I do not counteract and I do not hold onto it. I let go. In mercy, I act and and offer my helping hands to help the person with kindness in my heart. Mercy involves forgiveness but it goes beyond forgiveness.

Mercy has three elements: Paying attention, having empathy, and acting-taking steps to help the person who did something wrong. My heart was deeply hurt by someone whom I deeply and passionately loved. She did not show empathy when I was deeply suffering. It was a very painful experience for me to go through. I needed time to recover and heal. I did not hold on to my pain. I worked on it mindfully. I have let go of my resentment and I am relating to the person who caused pain in me with in a loving and kind way. I felt peace in me .

Showing mercy to oneself and to others heals wounds of oneself and others. Mercy can be cultivated and sustained by empathy, kindness and compassion and that's how I deal with suffering caused to others by me and by others to me. May we relate to ourselves and others in our life with loving kindness!
​Namaste!

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Thoughts Are Just Thoughts

1/15/2022

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Every thought arises in mind. Mind is the birthplace of all kinds thoughts and emotions - good, ugly and bad. If I get attached to them and get stuck with them they occupy my clear and empty space. In other words I become possessed by my thoughts and emotions.

Thoughts and emotions are ephemeral. They come and go unless I hold on to them adding more and more Karmik patterns and I get bound by such patterns. If I do not hold on to them they will be eventually dissolve. My mind will have emptiness like a clear sky with no clouds. In the empty and clear sky of mind, unconditional love and compassion naturally arise giving birth to joy, peace and fulfillment. It takes time to wake up depending how long I have been sleeping.

Practicing awareness has helped me not to go back to sleep but to remain awake. Practicing mindfulness in everyday life keeps me awake and free from the grip of craving and grasping. Candid reflections on getting stuck with self-created bondage helps me make wholesome decisions. This is the way I relate to what Dilgo Khyentse Rinpocha writes about thoughts, Thoughts Are No Thoughts.

​Namaste! 
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A Map To Here

1/1/2022

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As I was reading this writing by The Gnostic Writer my mind was fully present with what I was reading. My awareness of being fully present with what I was reading is an example of being here and now. Being here and now is the existential reality. My mind is not split by going to the past or thinking about the future. I am in the awakened mindset. My mind is not hijacked either by the past or the future.

My father compared such a here-and-now mindset with clear sky with no clouds. As I am reading this passage my mind is fully present with what I am reading. My mind is not wandering. It is focused. It feels like I am in the flow without any pull or push coming from the past or the future. I am in the fully awakened state of my mind and heart. Not sleeping mentally or dreaming about the future keeps me anchored in the flow of awareness-awareness of here and now.

Do I remain in this state all the time? I wish I could. The monkey mind wanders. Mindfulness of the monkey mind brings me back to the flow of here and now. And that is an awakened mind focused on the here and now consciousness. May we all cultivate skills of mindfulness to be in the here-and-now consciousness!

​Namaste! 
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