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Virtues Are Like Vitamins

7/9/2021

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Finding a balance between two extremes is a virtue by itself. In Buddhism it is called the middle path. In Yoga it is called equanimity-Yogahasmattvam uchyate. I use these words of wisdom in almost all walks of life such as eating, working, sleeping, talking and resting and thinking. Following the middle path helps me avoid the voices of deficiency and access. As Adam Grant says," If you want to be resilient, find the right amount of generosity and authenticity and grit." Or to put it differently to find "virtue in balance."

Once one of our friends invited us to celebrate his birthday. It was a wonderful gathering with lots of delicious vegetarian food items and different kinds of fruit juices. Normally I am careful about what and how much I put into my belly. That day I forgot to eat in moderation. And I paid a heavy price for my indulgence. That was a good lesson for me for walking and staying on the middle path.

I apply mindfulness in all walks of life. Awareness and alertness of what is going on in my body, mind, emotions and my actions and remaining alert about my actions helps me act wisely. Overdoing as well as under-doing have an adverse effect on the flow of my energy. I have learned how to live a balanced life and that's a blessing.
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Namaste!
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Therese M Griffin link
7/15/2021 07:38:58 pm

Is There an Unbalance of Generosity?

Many of us learned as children, "It's better to give than to receive." We need to recognize how to reverse that into: "In receiving, it is giving." How can that be?

Our false pride makes it hard to accept help because it may make us feel weak or inadequate. We enjoy being helpful because we know that we are making a difference and receive affirmations.

As we embrace receiving from others, we allow others to feel the grace of giving. One of my favorite statements is “Humility is Teachability.” An example, it’s better to teach someone how to fish; if you always give fish to others, they may starve from hunger. Those who learned how to fish from us; may have the gift to teach us how to find the best bait or cook the fish dishes.

My spiritual journey is walking side by side with others; that’s the gift of living with a generous heart of love for self and others.

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Therese
7/31/2021 02:33:40 pm

When we serve otheres, love others and be gnerous to otheres, there is no deficinecy. By giving we receive is a wise way of living.
The imbalance comes when we take care of otheres at the cost of our own wellness.Otherwise we become care-burntout. This is where wisdom guides us and a healthy balance is attained.
As usual you write very well and what you have stated comes from that source of wisdom.

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