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The Empty Boat

11/3/2023

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Here is my reflection to Chuang Tzu's poem:

​"Emptiness is Fullness" sounds paradoxical. This is the Tao - the way of living with no burdens of possessions, power, prestige, pride and prejudice. As I was growing I used to get messages from elderly people to work hard to outshine others, to earn name and fame. My boat of life was loaded with aspirations and ambitions without realizing that I was becoming my own enemy.
Self-awareness, open-mindedness and cultivating courage to be my real and authentic self opened the doors to be my self. I felt light as the boat of my self was slowly getting empty of self-created burdens and feeling the fullness of living a simple but fulfilling life. It is indeed paradoxical: By renouncing we rejoice; by emptying we become full. I know knowing is one side of the door and living is another side of the door. We need to open both sides of the door to walk freely, to live fully. What helps me walk and stay on this path? Non-judgemental Self-awareness, openness, humility, loving kindness and remaining awake have been very helpful to me. It is a slow journey. No need to hurry. Follow the Tao gratefully!
Namaste!
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Therese M Griffin link
11/4/2023 03:42:11 pm

My boat is fullest in abundance. In the past I thought living was to have a title, money in my pocket, and a bottle of whiskey. The boat was full of negativity with car accidents, DUIs, angry, misunderstanding, etc. I blamed others for not understanding who I am. Along the way, I lost my Creator, couldn't see the beauty of creations of gifts of life or the joys of others,

One day after walking with others who believe the beauty of the grass is green and the sky is blue. Suddenly, my eyes became bright so that I too could see the wonders of all loving creators. I embraced changing my attitude to gratitude and I can't to I can.

I could feel my body's tension flowing away. My face became relaxed, and laughter and joy fulfilled my being. Today I met a man who said "I can't stop drinking because people dislike me because of alcoholism. They make me mad, and I drink more!" I smiled, "The next time you hear them call you an alcoholic and ask you to get help take a deep breath. As you walk away when you hear the terms, you're sick get help! Change your angry stance to they love me. My family/friends love me because they want to see me well. Beath in and out: They love me, I love myself, they love me, I love myself… Walking on your journey with others you recognize that you are not alone. Most of all, eventually, you can embrace a power greater than yourself with peace, hope, and love. The Power Greater than yourself as many names as Creator, God, Jehovah, Yahweh, Jesus, Budha, or Spirit of Love. May you find the breath of life on your journey.

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Maria
11/4/2023 03:42:48 pm

I think loving humbly means living the opposite of what society values. Our new generations want fame and fortune but lose themselves in an illusion of what they believe others need from them.
I aim to find my Self. I have a lot of baggage to clear out like anger, greed, sadness, and false beliefs. Living my life following the Tao to me means learning to be at peace with who I am and where I am as well as with who I am sharing my life. I can do things that I feel are necessary to my awakening without wanting to be recognized by others. What matters is that I am compassionate with myself.

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