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Is there Righteous Anger Ever?

6/6/2017

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A very wise statement by J.Krishnamurti. As I understand, anger is anger, righteous or unrighteous. Anger burns us and burns others. As far as I am concerned I do not intend and want to burn myself and do not intend and want to throw my fire on  others whether they are my kinsmen or others. It is my conviction based on my experience that anger causes more anger and violence causes more violence.

Anger arises in me when I judge or condemn myself. The same way anger arises in the other person when I judge or condemn the other person. The same  thing happens the other way around.

How do we end the cycle of anger? Not by denying it or by justifying it. Both ways perpetuate the cycle of anger. It does not end by preaching you should not be angry.
 
Practicing mindfulness in all contexts of life has been immensely helpful to me. Mindfulness is  intentionally paying my non-judgmental attention to what is happening in me and around me. It is very helpful to pause between the anger generating stimulus and our habitual and automatic response. Taking deep breaths helps me to remain calm and centered and from that place within me the right, the wise, response arises. Such  a mindfulness practice frees me from the grip of conceptual and sociological analysis of anger.

When the mind is calm, open and centered, the right kind of inquiry arises in the mind which helps me to understand the intra and interpersonal dynamics of anger. The inner light helps me to process the inner and outer clouds of destructive emotions.

May we be mindful of the arising of hurting thoughts and emotions in our mind and make wise choices!
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Ramya
6/6/2017 12:17:46 pm

Even though, we all know Anger doesn't help in anyway, it is so difficult to avoid. I lose my temper so easily when things don't happen the way I anticipated. I have to start breathing and be Mindful of the situation rather than being Angry. Loved reading this article.

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Sarah
6/8/2017 06:53:22 am

I love that you've reminded us that it is not righteous nor unrighteous too. We are human. It is our decision to not give the anger weight. Our breath that brings us to centering and burns no one; not even itself.
Thank you, Dr

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Sarah
7/1/2017 09:46:00 pm

Dear Sarah:

Well said. How do we relate to anger is the key to emotional regulation. Recognize the rising of the anger wave, pause before reacting, Take deep breaths to be centered and then respond wisely. We all need to do such inner work for our wellness and the wellness of others connected with us. Namaste.

Ramya
7/1/2017 09:37:28 pm

Drear Ramya:

Anger is one of the most difficult emotions to work on. Make a list of situations or conditions or people that trigger anger in you.Become aware of the rising of anger in your mind , body and breath. Recognize the rising temperature or heat in your mind, body and breath. Pause and take a few deep breaths that create spaciousness in you to observe and sense your anger.Now you know you have anger but you are not anger.Creating a pause and breathing will result in responding to the person or condition rather than reacting. How you relate to your anger expereince is the key for regulating your anger.

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