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From Me To We: True Love Is A Process Of Humility

5/3/2024

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I love and appreciate the work of building spiritual communities or communes by the Buddhist monk Thich Nhat Hanh. We are social beings and we need to build spiritual communities not only for our survival but also for the enhancement of the members of our community. This is everybody's calling. Spiritual leaders, monks and nuns play a significant role in creating and sustaining spiritual communities. However, lay persons like me and you have a responsibility to create and sustain spiritual communities. Survival and enhancement of our precious life is up to all of us. We all need to join our hands together to protect and enhance the wellness of each member of our community, not only for a special group of people. It is a call for inclusion, not exclusion. I deeply appreciate the contribution of the Dalai Lama , Thich Nhat Hanh and other spiritual leaders for creating harmony and peace in the world which is dangerously divided. What is my part as a lay person in creating such a community? I have created two small communities with different spiritual oreintations where we get together once a week to explore different ways of working on diiferences to create and sustain inner peace for living holistically. It is a relatively small community. We hope and wish we all play our part in working for peace. If we do not make our sincere effort to work on this task of building a harmonious community, I see dark clouds of divisiveness, discord, and destruction. I hope and urge that we all do our best to create and sustain harmony and peace. Reading and discussing such writings and figuring out ways of building and sustaining such spiritual communities is our responsibility. This is a way of moving from Me to We.
​Namaste!
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Debbie Podwika
5/4/2024 06:02:14 pm

I agree and I know the research supports that communities provide such wonderful benefits, friendship, love, validation, support, great ideas etc.
I have a few groups besides this one that are great benefits. I belong to a local chapter of an international group called Green Drinks since 2008. We meet monthly to listen to a speaker on a selective topic about sustainability. There are times when the party room at the restaurant is standing room only and out the door but most of the time it's about I would say 30-40 people and I have a lot of friends from that group. And from that group 7 years ago I started a sustainability book club and though we've had people over the years start and stop we have a good core of about seven people who come regularly and again a very good friends of mine now. I also joined a year ago a writers group at my local library and they have been a wonderful group thus far.

I too think the world the way it is right now could benefit from people participating more in groups to get to know different people so we could feel more connected rather than disconnected. It used to be that people could still be friends even though they had different viewpoints say on spirituality and politics but today that's not the case so much and it's kind of sad. Although I will say some of the issues are well just dealing with today are a little more serious perhaps than in the past. And I think there's many more of them.

I remember also as I grew up my family group was quite extended and we always got together for all the kids birthdays, communion, confirmation, graduations, weddings, holidays etc. We'd have about 50 people at each of these gatherings. with my generation people got married and had in-laws and moved even more into the suburbs and the disconnection widened and we don't meet like that anymore and it's very sad to me. I have such incredibly wonderful memories. I'm certainly grateful that I got to experience that but I just wish that it could have continued. I think this is why I also try to join groups. I also tried to see my family I do have left close to me as often as I possibly can.

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Elaine noonan
5/5/2024 05:20:02 am

Yes I agree with you as to why I have joined a choir, teach workshops in dance and health fitness , do art/poetry and love Dr Dave’s Satsanga group. My children are grown and I miss them very much . Nothing replaces family. I want them to see me out of love and not obligation. I grew up with large , frequent family parties which I want to continue. Retirement creates great amounts of free time.


I seek God to continue creating love and peace within the community of my immediate family, which is where our society is built upon. Starting with my own inner peace and joy and gratitude is my first morning prayer.

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